{"id":3029,"date":"2019-08-20T09:54:45","date_gmt":"2019-08-20T14:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/?p=1483"},"modified":"2019-08-20T09:54:45","modified_gmt":"2019-08-20T14:54:45","slug":"nine-tips-for-parents-to-beat-back-to-school-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/20\/nine-tips-for-parents-to-beat-back-to-school-stress\/","title":{"rendered":"Nine tips for parents to beat back-to-school stress"},"content":{"rendered":"

Another summer is ending. It\u2019s hard to believe how fast it went by. I hope you\u2019ve enjoyed time with your family and friends and found time to relax.
\nI love having my kids around the house during the summer. While the extra help with chores is appreciated, I like the fact that there are no chaotic schedules to follow.
\nUnfortunately, back-to-school time means chaotic schedules, congestion on roadways, and added stress. Depending on your children\u2019s ages and their involvement in extracurricular activities, the chaos might have already begun.
\nWe often hear about tips for helping our kids manage back-to-school stress, but what about us?
\nMany parents of school-aged children have their own worries and insecurities about school starting such as:
\nWill my children have good teachers?
\nWill they know anybody in their classes?
\nWho will they eat lunch with?
\nHow much will school supplies cost?
\nAre my children\u2019s schools safe?
\nWill my children make a sports team or will they get a leading part in the school play?
\nWill my children be able to handle their homework?
\nWill they excel academically?
\nLooking back on my high school years, the big insecurity for me was finding someone to sit with at lunch. So of course, it\u2019s the first question I ask my high schooler.
\nThere are some things that as a parent we just need to let go. It\u2019s impossible to be in control of everything all the time. For other things, stress can be alleviated.
\nHere are some tips to help you beat back-to-school stress.<\/strong>
\n1. Map out your schedule now.<\/strong> If you haven\u2019t already done so, start thinking about what your schedule will look like once school starts. Consider buying a calendar that the entire family can look at. If your family members are aware of the different schedules, this can alleviate some of the pressure you may be feeling. Continue to update the calendar as new activities or appointments are discovered.
\n2. Review paperwork and school website.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve received paperwork from the school and it\u2019s sitting in a pile on your kitchen counter, now\u2019s the time to start reading through it. Also consider looking at your school\u2019s website for useful information. Finding out on the first day of school that start or end times have changed will increase your stress level.
\n3. Reach out to your children\u2019s teachers now.<\/strong> If you have contact information for your children\u2019s teachers, consider sending them an email now. Asking questions before the school year starts can help you feel more prepared.
\n4. Develop a back up plan now.<\/strong> Think about different scenarios that may interrupt your normal school routines. What happens if an early morning meeting pops onto your schedule or if you\u2019re delayed in traffic? Do you have neighbors or family members who can step in and lend a hand? Can you utilize the bus service? Can your child stay after school in an extended care program or homework center? Having a Plan B can help eliminate stress when something changes. You won\u2019t be left scrambling trying to pick up the pieces.
\n5. Work as a team.<\/strong> As schedules get more hectic, divide up routine tasks with your spouse or significant other. This can reduce the workload and stress that maybe only one person is feeling. If you\u2019re a single parent, ask for help from neighbors, friends, or family members. People are willing to help if you simply ask.
\n6. Prioritize back-to-school expenses. <\/strong>Buying school supplies and new clothes is exciting for the kids. But for us, it can be overwhelming because we pay the bill. And once school starts, it never fails, miscellaneous fees start to trickle in (e.g. field trips, yearbooks, etc.). Write down everything you think your students need with estimated costs and then prioritize. There may be something on the list that can wait.
\n7. Discuss rules and expectations.<\/strong> For a lot of kids, the end of summer can be a rude awakening. The days of staying up late and sleeping in are over. Also, the amount of time spent on social media or gaming will need to be reduced so that they can focus on homework. Before the school year starts, discuss what the new rules will be. Let them know that homework takes priority. Hopefully, setting expectations now will help with the transition into the new year and will alleviate future arguments.
\n8. Write it down.<\/strong> If you have questions you want to ask or things you want to do, write them down, rather than trying to store everything in your brain. This can reduce stress and free up brain power to concentrate on things that are more important.
\n9. Don\u2019t be afraid to say no.<\/strong> Along with the start of school comes volunteering opportunities. Based on your children\u2019s involvement in activities, volunteering may be mandatory (e.g. concession stand, uniform fitting, etc.), while other opportunities may not be mandatory. Volunteering is rewarding and has many benefits. However, it\u2019s important to stay focused on your family\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Another summer is ending. It\u2019s hard to believe how fast it went by. I hope you\u2019ve enjoyed time with your family and friends and found time to relax. I love having my kids around the house during the summer. While the extra help with chores is appreciated, I like the fact that there are no […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3019,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3029","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3029","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3029"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3029\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3029"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3029"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flagshipinsuranceservices.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3029"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}